OPW – What a disgrace

The daily script by Dr Tlaleng

Dear Broadcasting Complaints Commision SA.

Rape culture is so normalised and in a country like ours with the type of statistics around rape and gender based violence it is highly disturbing what we were shown on Mzansi Magic last night.
Perverts and self confessed paedophiles get rewarded with a tv show on the  channel and nobody in the production saw nothing wrong with the narrative.

Last night’s episode of “Our perfect wedding” on Channel  161 has shown a couple that met when she was a 14yrs old child and he was 28yrs old.

He proclaimed and very proudly that he used to “TARGET” school kids 3 to 4 daily for sex and even had a schedule on how to fit them in. 
He explains how he waited for the after school rush.

I’m absolutely floored and horrified that no body in the production of this episode saw anything wrong.

Normalising…

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Shaming Women With “Ashawo” Won’t Make Your Dick Bigger

Asaase Yaa Mma

Sexism is stealing Ghanaian women’s orgasms in the following two ways. First, by attacking women for being sexual. Second, through a backward imagination of sex that causes your boyfriend to jam his penis into your unlubricated vagina repeatedly and overzealously, rabid rabbit style, until you begin quietly praying that this miserable experience masquerading as sex, is finally over. Sexual repression is the reason women having sex is viewed as a favor to men. Frankly, Ghanaian women deserve better. Yaa Asantewaa did not fight the British for Ghanaian women to suffer through unguided genital jabs, and sexist insults, such as “area hoe”, for daring to live a sexually fulfilled pleasurable life.

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Happy Mother’s Day, Queens.

It’s Mother’s day today, a day where we celebrate the lovely women who carried us for a whole 9 months & those who gave birth pre-maturely; I believe we are wired to be more closer to our mothers than to our sperm-donors i.e fathers, and it’s a very good thing since most fathers have a particular phobia of parenting. A mother’s love is quite wholesome & possess a certain ability to influence what type of adult the child may one day become, not to say a father is not as important. A mother is the one who struggles with the child from the point of conception, to the labor ward where she pushes a very big-headed miracle, dealing with shit every day for years, to feeling much of the pain as she kicks your ass.

There’s is nothing a mother won’t do to make sure you are well looked after, that’s why we should value our mothers.Yes, they tend to be a little overprotective and totally controlling; but let’s face it, you would do the same to make sure your creation isn’t destroyed, so give them a break and try to please their needs; that’s the least you can do for such a special lady.

To those Khumbula Ekhaya motherless kids, don’t worry because mother nature is there to look after you, to every mother with a homosexual or disabled child, and loving them without caring about societal pressures… You have a reason to be proud of yourselves, to every adoptive mother who is not doing it for the state grant, thank you for sharing your love. Young mothers, I know it may seem early but you can do it; you are halfway there.Lastly, to every mother you are the greatest; we adore you more than anything, Queens.

. Bokamoso

Easter wish.

This Easter holidays, I have one simple wish, I wish that people will learn to not force their beliefs on others, can we please live together in peace without the discriminations & name calling that we have had endure just for having different beliefs, about the deity or any other belief that can’t be proven.

Some people believe that the tooth-fairy, tokoloshes, santa claus & other unproven immortal beings exist & others prefer to not believe  such bogus claims with good reasons, I believe that’s no reason for us not to live together in pure harmony, let’s just learn to understand that we’ll always have differences. Peace should be what we preach this Easter, Love & let Live.
Let’s stop hating each other over outrageous claims that may not be true & that we may never find to have any ounce of truth, after all no one knows for sure if what we have been fed since the beginning of time is true or not, the only thing people are relying on is faith, some from being sacred of the unknown & others from the fear of being seen as outrageous or abnormal, is it worth it? Think about it….. Happy Easter Everyone.

Blocked by Mbaks

Calling Through The Fog

instagramThis week I got blocked on Twitter by South Africa’s sports minister, Fikile Mbalula. That doesn’t make me special. Mbalula aka Fiks aka Mbaks aka Razzmatazz aka Beyoncé Please Call Me blocks people faster than a jammer having a “glitch” in the media gallery at Parliament.

And to be honest, he’s actually been pretty restrained with me. I’ve been heckling him on Twitter for months, wondering aloud what a Sports Minister is actually for, or why he is paid 2.2 million of our tax rands every year, or how his ministry spends the billion tax rands it is handed annually. I mean, after you’ve signed off on your latest campaign to get South Africans interested in basketball (Because Americans! And Americans!) and then headed out for lunch in Camps Bay, there’s quite a lot of change left.

lunchMbalula, however, has not been idle since taking office. (You will recall he was…

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