OPW – What a disgrace

The daily script by Dr Tlaleng

Dear Broadcasting Complaints Commision SA.

Rape culture is so normalised and in a country like ours with the type of statistics around rape and gender based violence it is highly disturbing what we were shown on Mzansi Magic last night.
Perverts and self confessed paedophiles get rewarded with a tv show on the  channel and nobody in the production saw nothing wrong with the narrative.

Last night’s episode of “Our perfect wedding” on Channel  161 has shown a couple that met when she was a 14yrs old child and he was 28yrs old.

He proclaimed and very proudly that he used to “TARGET” school kids 3 to 4 daily for sex and even had a schedule on how to fit them in. 
He explains how he waited for the after school rush.

I’m absolutely floored and horrified that no body in the production of this episode saw anything wrong.

Normalising…

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Shaming Women With “Ashawo” Won’t Make Your Dick Bigger

Asaase Yaa Mma

Sexism is stealing Ghanaian women’s orgasms in the following two ways. First, by attacking women for being sexual. Second, through a backward imagination of sex that causes your boyfriend to jam his penis into your unlubricated vagina repeatedly and overzealously, rabid rabbit style, until you begin quietly praying that this miserable experience masquerading as sex, is finally over. Sexual repression is the reason women having sex is viewed as a favor to men. Frankly, Ghanaian women deserve better. Yaa Asantewaa did not fight the British for Ghanaian women to suffer through unguided genital jabs, and sexist insults, such as “area hoe”, for daring to live a sexually fulfilled pleasurable life.

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Happy Mother’s Day, Queens.

It’s Mother’s day today, a day where we celebrate the lovely women who carried us for a whole 9 months & those who gave birth pre-maturely; I believe we are wired to be more closer to our mothers than to our sperm-donors i.e fathers, and it’s a very good thing since most fathers have a particular phobia of parenting. A mother’s love is quite wholesome & possess a certain ability to influence what type of adult the child may one day become, not to say a father is not as important. A mother is the one who struggles with the child from the point of conception, to the labor ward where she pushes a very big-headed miracle, dealing with shit every day for years, to feeling much of the pain as she kicks your ass.

There’s is nothing a mother won’t do to make sure you are well looked after, that’s why we should value our mothers.Yes, they tend to be a little overprotective and totally controlling; but let’s face it, you would do the same to make sure your creation isn’t destroyed, so give them a break and try to please their needs; that’s the least you can do for such a special lady.

To those Khumbula Ekhaya motherless kids, don’t worry because mother nature is there to look after you, to every mother with a homosexual or disabled child, and loving them without caring about societal pressures… You have a reason to be proud of yourselves, to every adoptive mother who is not doing it for the state grant, thank you for sharing your love. Young mothers, I know it may seem early but you can do it; you are halfway there.Lastly, to every mother you are the greatest; we adore you more than anything, Queens.

. Bokamoso

Easter wish.

This Easter holidays, I have one simple wish, I wish that people will learn to not force their beliefs on others, can we please live together in peace without the discriminations & name calling that we have had endure just for having different beliefs, about the deity or any other belief that can’t be proven.

Some people believe that the tooth-fairy, tokoloshes, santa claus & other unproven immortal beings exist & others prefer to not believe  such bogus claims with good reasons, I believe that’s no reason for us not to live together in pure harmony, let’s just learn to understand that we’ll always have differences. Peace should be what we preach this Easter, Love & let Live.
Let’s stop hating each other over outrageous claims that may not be true & that we may never find to have any ounce of truth, after all no one knows for sure if what we have been fed since the beginning of time is true or not, the only thing people are relying on is faith, some from being sacred of the unknown & others from the fear of being seen as outrageous or abnormal, is it worth it? Think about it….. Happy Easter Everyone.

Blocked by Mbaks

Calling Through The Fog

instagramThis week I got blocked on Twitter by South Africa’s sports minister, Fikile Mbalula. That doesn’t make me special. Mbalula aka Fiks aka Mbaks aka Razzmatazz aka Beyoncé Please Call Me blocks people faster than a jammer having a “glitch” in the media gallery at Parliament.

And to be honest, he’s actually been pretty restrained with me. I’ve been heckling him on Twitter for months, wondering aloud what a Sports Minister is actually for, or why he is paid 2.2 million of our tax rands every year, or how his ministry spends the billion tax rands it is handed annually. I mean, after you’ve signed off on your latest campaign to get South Africans interested in basketball (Because Americans! And Americans!) and then headed out for lunch in Camps Bay, there’s quite a lot of change left.

lunchMbalula, however, has not been idle since taking office. (You will recall he was…

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Zuma or Malema, who is the real threat to SA’s future?

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The political landscape of South Africa changed a lot ever since Julius Malema decided to no longer be a puppet to the ANC ,and to rather take charge and paint SA red with his own party (Economic Freedom Fighters). Before the 2014 Elections, the ANC (African National Congress) didn’t have a worthy opposition, especially one that’s also taking advantage of the poor to advance the interests of its members (the elite allies). I was shocked to see some of the people who didn’t like Juju during his ANC Youth League days, not only becoming EFF members but also becoming EFF MPs, I guess it is true that the enemy of my enemy is my friend; after all they share the same dislike for the ANC.

This made Parliament get a lot more interesting this year and for the first time I found myself being glued to the TV screen, the same way Generations fans did before Mfundi was f#$ked by his former cast. It was a great comic experience, something that could make it to Comedy Central; but people are still suffering, people who voted because there were promises being made; promises which our politicians usually never keep after they get their valuable votes. Everyday we hear people complaining about the state of governance in this country, it is very rare to find someone who has positive things to say, people are losing faith and don’t know where to look for deliverance any more. People voted for the EFF with the hope that it will rectify the mistakes ANC has made in the past 20 years, inequality being the main issue.

And yes, EFF is attempting to deliver on its promises, starting with the taking back of the land, land which was “stolen”from our forefathers, they have also tried very hard to make sure that the President pays back the money that was used to build his palace at Nkandla; money which the president despite the public protector’s directives to at least pay back a certain amount, hasn’t payed  back a cent or said if or when he will do so. One thing I did realise though is that the president is not willing to answer any question or to even take any responsibility when he is supposed to, and that there is always this army of loyalists ready to protect him, there are many people in the ruling party that I respected during the Mandela/Mbeki era who I am ashamed of today, same way there are EFF MPs who I have lost respect for because they let go of their integrity in their attempt to advance their political careers.

I believe in our country’s ability to rid itself of all the bad things that are happening now, and I am sure that the time will come when inequality will be an all-time low but we don’t have to mess up the country in the process. Erecting shacks wherever you see unoccupied land may lead to a mess, invading the legislature house is wrong, letting a palace be built and claiming to not have known is not good leadership, being loyal to a party because of its past success is a bad idea; all this is bad for our country’s future.

Let’s protect our country and continue to grow it, and make it better.

NM